ive been trying to concieve for a month, my love ejac. in me quite often, yet i have my period,need help*?

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[Carmen La Coja]

It usually takes a little longer than just a month, dear. I wouldn't start to worry about it unless an entire year goes by and you still aren't pregnant.

[glonely love]

This happens to alot of people you should buy and ovulation kit if you want to get pregnant. even if he cums in you does not mean your gonna get pregnant that easy (only a few people get pregnant the easy) get an ovulation kit so it tells you the 2 best days for you to convice i would recomend clear blue easy digtial ovulation kit with the smiley face... good luck!!!!

[Catherine E: VT]

A month is nothing. You only ovulate once a month, and for most women it takes several tries before you get pregnant.

[Cosmetologist_momma_of_2]

For normal couples, who are healthy and have no issues with reproduction organs.... conception can take up to a year. It is completely normal. So, I wouldn't be worried after just a month. My daughter was concieved on the first try. My son took two months to concieve. Now, TTC again and in the third month. So, you are just fine.

There are things that you can do to increase your chances. You can track certain things to help pinpoint your fertile days of the month, so you know when to babydance. One of the easiest things you can do is try home ovulation test kits. They are just like pregnancy tests... you pee on a stick and see the results. They will tell you when you are coming up on ovulation... so you know exactly the couple days you need to be baby dancing.

Hope this helps.
Good luck!

[HOPING BY MARCH TO BE 08 MOMMY!]

march is the 4th month for my husband and i it take time as every one like to tell me

[Jennifer]

It usually takes more than a month. You may actually be having sex too much. Your loves sperm needs time to replenish. Every other day would be the best. You really need to do some research on pregnancy charts. They help you pin down the time you are ovulating. Remember eggs only live for about 24 hrs but sperm lives about 5 days. Make sure you don't get up after sex for 10 minutes or so. Also the missionary position is best. Also don't use saliva as a lubricant as it kills sperm. Oral sex should be ok though.
Hope that helps and Baby Dust to you and to me!

[TTC_Expert]

chart your cycles to find out when or if you are acutally ovulating. have sex "often" is fine but if you're not ovulating or missing your fertile time you won't get pregnant.
read Taking Charge of Your Fertility and visit fertilityfriend.com to get info on charting.

-sex everyday is OK as long as the man doesn't have a low sperm count. millions of sperm are made daily. every other day is reccomended with Male Factor Infertility.

[Rene A]

There is only a 25% chance of conceiving in each cycle and that is if everything is perfect. It is considered normal for a healthy couple to take up to one year to conceive.

You don't need any help. You need patience.

The only day you get can pregnant is when you ovulate. The day you ovulate, your body releases the egg. The egg lives a maxium of 24 hours. However, sperm can live up to five days in fertile cervical mucus but most live three days. Your fertile phase are the 3-4 days prior to ovulation and the day of ovulation.

You are considered most fertile when the mucus becomes clear, slippery, and stretchy. Many women compare mucus at this stage to raw egg whites. The amount of this thin mucus will steadily increase until you experience your 'mucus peak'. This is the last day of this phase where the chance of conception is high. It is closely tied to ovulation. During this phase, the sperm's survival rate is higher. To maximize your chances of getting pregnant, have sex every day you have egg white cervical mucus or if you detect your partner might have low sperm count have sex every other day during that time.

Stages of Cervical Fluid: Post Menses
Stage 1: Lasting 2 - 3 days CM is Sticky or Gummy
Stage 2: Lasting 2- 4 days: CM is Creamy, Milky, Lotion Like - Beginning of your fertile period
Stage 3: Lasting 1-5 days: Egg white Cervical Fluid - At this time you are very fertile.
Stage 4: Dry, Moist or Sticky (Infertile)

Here is a more detailed description:
http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/cervical-mucus.html
http://www.fertilityuk.org/nfps401.html.... - this one has pictures