who thinks teen pregnancy is ridiculous?

[Miss T]

[if you know if u were raped then thats understandable] but come on? how hard is it to keep your legs closed?


and who ever wants to know, im 16 and a virgin. i plan to stay a virgin till im married. its not for a religious thing. I dont want to confuse my system with fake hormones like birth control, i promised my self and my mom, and i dont just want to do it with my bf who i would probably end up breaking up with and then think, wut a waste.
taraaaa, how am i rude? im just asking a question, u dont have to answer if you dont want to
and im talking like 17 and under
and i also wonder why cant people just wait to have sex?

[bizzurke]

you should be more specific darling....

im 18 and pregnant, about to be 19...is that ridiculous? and why?

ideally i dont think that girls should get pregnant while still in high school, i think they should graduate first...that is my opinion on the matter. i graduated last june.....

[Christa iz the shiz]

I THINK IT IS ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm 15, and I'm a virgin!!!

[Princess]

Good on you!! that is great! you sound like a mature, sensible switched on Teenager! your mum should be so so proud! x

[chelle]

I lost my virginity at the age of thirteen. Am I ashamed? No, because it has defined who I am now and I love myself.

[manda]

Oh my goodness i agree with you completely and couldn't have said it better..i am 16 and a virgin saving it fore marrige..its so great to see someone else with the same views rather then all the questions that say im 12 and my boyfriend and i had sex could i be pregnant..i mean why would someone want to screw up their life like that but anyways i'm now rambling but way to stick to your values!!!

[Taraaaa {♥}]

Ignorance lurks, everywhere. ♥

I'm not going to be one to praise you because you are rude dear.

EDIT: I'm sorry if I came across rude, because I'm not a rude person. But do you see how when you say things a certain way, they make that person seem rude? I just did it to you, see? I have nothing against your question, just the phrasing of the question wasn't exactly friendly. And you're probably not a rude person.

[☻☻☻ T e s s a ☺☺☺]

Well, it just depends how you feel about sex, doesn't it..?
Some people might think, I'de love to have a child, some not..
Its a personal desiscion, there is no rong way about it, other then- Never have sex before you get your period..

[Cat Meow]

Why do you care ? I think all the unprotected sex and stupidity is the problem not the teen mothers.

[Paige's Mommy]

until you can provide for a child, you shouldn't have one!! Teenagers just can't provide, not to mention, maturity wise, they have a lot of growing up to do.

[michelle]

Yeah, I think it's horrible. And the fact that abortion is legal is not helping. They just think of it as an acceptable way of dealing with their stupid mistake.

[MissLaBeouf]

well if ur 18 or 19 its okay but i agree with you. im staying a virgin bcuz i dont want to lose my virginity to someone im not going to spend my life with and i might even lose contact with.

[Iloveyou!!]

actually i lost my virginity at 14 and im 15 now it was only about 3 months ago and i dont think that its that bad having sex at that age if your doin it with someone you love, but i think getting pregnant at my age is not a good thing because you still have alot of life ahead of you and it would be very difficult.
but thats just me
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[Lord Darby]

ya go go
i agree 100% with you
keep it up

[notomys.mordax]

I do not necessarily think that teen pregnancy is "ridiculous" because accidents happen, even when utilized perfectly all birth control methods have failure rates. However I do think that many teens whom chose to be sexually active do not make educated choices about their sexual health.

Abstaining is not for everybody, and even people whom plan on abstaining make mistakes, or get caught up in the moment. I did not lose my virginity until my early twenties (my boyfriend was in his mid-twenties and also a virgin). While we are still together, waiting until marriage simply wasn't an option, as neither one of us are very religious. However we were in at a point in our lives (and in our relationship) that if I did get pregnant we would be able to financially support ourselves.

For most people I think it's probably a good idea to wait until they graduate from high school to have sex: but that was just what worked for me. It depends on peoples situation really.

What I do think is ridiculous is when virgins opt to have anal sex, instead of vaginal sex, so they can keep the title of "virgin".

In response to your comment, the reason why waiting until we were married to have sex wasn't an option for a few reasons. Firstly, as an atheist, I do not associate sexuality with spiritual things. Subsequently, I have found that sexual intercourse has greatly enhanced my personal relationship with my boyfriend, and has permitted us to bond on a very deep level. I think that if an individual is able to accept the consequences of sex (or more importantly the possibility of pregnancy) their really isn't any reason to wait until marriage.

[I'm shirtless!]

It's ridiculous and disgusting. It isn't that hard to keep your pants on, honestly.

Just proves how much immaturity and idiocy there is in this world.

[Yanyan]

pregnancy is a gift from god, happiness to married couples, consequence of stupid teens, accident to responsible teens, and mistake to rapists. its an empty heart filler, and a life ruiner. its an accident to little children who don't know where babies come from and get pregnant. pregnancy is good and bad. it impacts life good or bad. its a money burden. its a life of someone who may one day get pregnant itself in one of these ways in its cycle of life.

[existentialist2529]

I think so, definitely. Teens have no business having sex.

[north_carolina_gurl_blue]

well im 14 and preg. thats ur choice. im ganna b a proudy mommy! i just found out 2 night i am. so yeah im happy...get a life please!

[hmm.. Coffee make my day!!]

Eww..!! i cant help but want to puke by the answerer here, one girl on the top answer, that she loose her virginity when she was 13 and she doesn't feel ashamed?? how come? do you have any mental issue statement running through your pathetic brain??!!

i have a 12 y/o sister, and i just cant think she is having sex and getting pregnant at last, and YES IT IS RIDICULOUS ABOUT TEEN PREGNANCY!! you are teens, what you know about life, hard work, sacrifice, pay off??

do you think by having sex and having a child (I'm aiming at the first answerer) you can have a better future? are you in college now? your bf is with you? are you sure you can give your child a future, a good future?? does that cross your brain when you were moaning, dear??!!!

PATHETIC!!

i agree with you and am proud, others want to have sex and doom their future its none of our business, but im sure.. next 10 years we'll not sound ridiculous, do we?? *high five*

[baldie]

call me old fashion if you like, but if a teenage girl gets pregnant , just to have a baby, then she needs to have the father to support them and she needs to take care of the baby herself, dont go throwing the baby off on to her parents. if she has to take care of it all hours of the night, she wont be in a hurry to have another 1.and as for the father, he needs to get out there and find a job to support his baby.

[kerry k]

I agree with you. All that it accomplishes is to prove that their biological functions do indeed work. it proves nothing. it does not demonstrate that they are women of maturity. It does prove that they are being quite foolish, or that they think so little of themselves as to have to have a baby so that they can live off the rest of us who do have jobs. Personally. welfare should stop paying girls who have babies unless they can prove that they are incapable of having any kind of job skill by which they could take care of themselves without government assistance.
No, is a very powerful word, to bad there are not more girls that know how to use it.

[Kendra.]

Well thanks for the life story.... that was sweet. Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders but.... also sounds like you're pretty close-minded and judgemental.
I was 16 when i got pregnant, 17 when i had him. I dont see a dam thing wrong with what i've done. Not only am i still in high school(and graduating in may), im going to college in the fall, support my child (financially, physically, and emotionally), i'm still with the father and so what if i was another teen statistic. I started my family sooner than excpected. Dont be pointing fingers if you've never been in the situation.

[shantel]

Beinq a preqnant teen isn't rediculous, u don't kno our situation .

Birth control isn't 100% accurate, condoms break, u can forqet to take the pill a couple of days, etc..

It isn't riqht for U or ANYBODY to judqe our situation or us .
Try to be in our shoes first and then talk all the crap that u want to .

Yeah its IRRESPONSIBLE to come out preqnant at a younq aqe, but also we are beinq RESPONSIBLE by takinq actions and choosinq to either have the baby and raise it with us or qivinq it for adoption .

Excuse me if I wus beinq hormonally rude but ur HARSH ! Hopefully u won't loose ur virqinity at a younq aqe, come out preqnant rite away and be in our shoes .

[proudmommy2be]

see, what people don't understand is s*it happens. most teens who end up pregnant don't do it on purpose. it's an accident, and yes, they do happen.

for the ones that do it on purpose because they think it's fun to have a baby, they're in for a very rude awakening.

i'm currently 18 and 25 weeks pregnant with my first. i graduate in 4 more days, and have a steady job. i'm still with my wonderful boyfriend, and the father of my child, and he's stepped up and done a lot more than i expected him too, and i'm very proud of him. this wasn't something i planned, but it happened, and now i know i have to do what i have to do to provide in every way i can for this baby, and i'm totally prepared for that. i know it won't be easy, but this was my decision to keep this baby, and now i have to face the consequences.

my best friend had hers at 16, and she messed up. she lost the baby because she decided to act like a child instead of a mother, and although i don't agree with the decisions she's made, i've learned from them.

bottom line is not all teen moms and screw ups. it's all in their decisions.