I let a friend of mine have sex with my girlfriend, now she is pregnant, what should I do?

[Not T]

I have a friend that thinks my 21 year old girl friend is hot, he thinks she is a lot hotter then I do. I was thinking about breaking up with her and my friend, I’ll call him Jim, and I were talking about it. He said something like “I would love to hit that if she wasn’t yours.” I told him I wouldn’t care if he had sex with her now.

Of course my girl friend can’t stand my buddy Jim. So we came up with a way to switch places, without her knowing, on the weekend after she had been drinking. We would come home and Jim would already be there, I started it and Jim finished it. Seemed like a good idea at the time. So about 2 and a half months ago we did it. She had no clue. So we did it again, and still no clue so we did it a third time and this time video taped it with a Sony night vision camera.

Jim and I had talked and I told him that he would have to do things like I do so she wouldn’t think anything was up. So that ruled out condoms, and I never pull out of her.
If he were to pull out we would have been busted. So Jim had sex with her 3 times and each time totally went in her. I told him not to worry about it since she was clean and was on the pill. Woops…

So now she is pregnant, and I’m not sure if it is mine or his. It will be easy to tell though since my girlfriend and I are both white and my buddy Jim is a black guy. So what should I do, should I tell her the truth? Or should I just wait until she has the baby and if it comes out half black just call her a slut and make a scene at the hospital?

[byebye]

how long do you both expect to get for rape

[strawberry_sherberts]

alls i can say is.. sick.

[rightredflag]

uve been fooled dawg, she was already pregnant by him and it was set up so she could do him and get away with the baby....

[stripperbody]

the world we live in...tell her so she can do something about it...

[Sologurl]

RAPIST!

[♥Brown Eyes♥]

I hope you're joking about this (btw, it's not funny). If not, you just admitted to helping some rape your girlfriend. Real nice you idiot.

[jedali2006]

you are a totally jerk. now you have to do a DNA when that baby is born.

[Charliebrown]

What a numpty ! Go and confess to her before it gets out of hand. You should at least be honest for crying out loud !

[-Kuroi-Namida-624-]

It's your friggin fault, tell her! She'll find out eventually. Either your friend will tell her out of guilt, or one of you will tell her when you're drunk, or she'll find the videotape. Trust me, your a dead man either way, but it's a less painful death if you tell her directly.

[BGaviator]

Well, what you and your friend did is considered rape and you could go to jail.....you could tell her the truth now, and you could still go to jail....or you could wait to find out if it's half black, and then she'd know something wasn't right and you could still go to jail.

[Taylor♥║▌]

- Well.. You really could get in trouble for doing that.
It was wrong on soo many levels..
BUT, you need to step up.
If you were 'grown' enough to play games and have sex, then you should be grown enough to fess up to what You did to her.
That's really Not cool, Or funny for that matter.. Just sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her Exactly how things went down.
She has the right to know.. It is her body, Right?

Anyways, Good luck and I'm sure You'll do the right thing.

[hip lady]

you need to find a councilor to help you with this problem. you and your friend need to get your buts whipped for doing this to your girl. now that she is prego then both you guys should pay for child support. i am posting this as interesting to see how many people responds to this ??? i see all ready there are 17. you are one sick f---k. each one answered are pis-ed. now do you see what a fool you are. sick sick sick. i removed the star because i can't have it be interesting when it is so sick. jail is what you two need to have. most of the people on here agree with me and agree with them.

[alisahansen20]

u r a f***ing rapist.. just think about this.. if that baby is yours and it is a female.. how will u feel if someone did like this with your daughter? why do men forget that each woman is someones daughter, mother, sister.. same can happen to their mothers,sisters and daughters in future.. shame on you and your friend.. but mostly on you! u don't love her at all.. and i wish that baby hates you both.. none of you deserve to be a dad! if i was that girl i would have chopped of your penis! morons.. and why on earth will you video tape it?????EWWWWWWW this is so PATHETIC

[Tricia]

ur one sick twat you let your girlfriend get raped three times and watched while your mate did it. she aint no slut ur a psycho.if you had fallen out of love with her you should heave just ended it not put her through that. when she finds out cos you have to tell her then you are both lookin at jail time for rape accessory 2 rape pervertin the course of justice and for taping the act to as without her concent thats illegal. i suggest you tell her now before the baby is born and as for you saying how she is clean did it occur to you your mate may not be and there fore you all need testing for std's. you need to tell her rite away n hope she dont press charges if this is how you treat your girlfriends then i only hope no woman is ever dumb enough to go near you ever again

[Packrat 666]

You will be able to tell when the baby comes out. Maybe you all could go on Jerry Springer.

[K]

you should tell her the truth so when she delivers the baby and its black she will not be shock anymore

[aykey]

if i were you, just wait till the baby comes out. i bet the baby is not yours.

[Harley Lady]

I would say if the baby comes out bi racial and she wasn't informed beforehand by you, she might have a major lawsuit against you, especially if the video is ever found.You will definitely be paying more than child support.If she had been drinking enough not to notice that your buddy's body(and other parts) felt different than yours, and she could not tell a difference in body odors, I would say she would have never know whether your friend pulled out or had a condom on. I think you are feeding us a line of crap. It is too early for April Fools day, but Happy Easter anyways.

[itswhatumakeit]

this is wrong in so many ways. If he kid comes out black this girl is going to lose it. she has a baby with someone she doesnt even remember having sex with? that is TERRIBLE and now shes pregnant and you think its a joke?

my dad and all his friends ran a train on your mother..which is why you dont know who your dad is.
you are so sick. wheres your respect?? you should be put in jail

[Miss Mum]

OMG.......... wonder how long you both will get in PRISON. Definatly tell her. She has a right to know who she has sex with. doesnt matter if hes black or white its fu cking wrong!!

[skye_dez_smiles]

well that will teach you guys wont it?
you brought it apon yourself so why dont you handle it for youselfs.
so stupid doing that to someone.
sicko's!