When a woman tells her husband that she is pregnant it is one of that life defining moments for both herself and her husband. It’s the moment that they have been waiting for. Its one of the important reasons that they got married for. To raise a family and build a future for themselves and their children. When the happy occasion arrives the woman has to scratch her head to find out how exactly she can inform her husband.
Whisper it out
There are both the traditional ways and the creative ways of doing it. It depends on several factors like the personality of the husband and the wife, the families they have grown up in and the socio-economic environment they operate in. In traditional households once this news is verified either by the doctor or the family the wife informs her husband in the most serious tone possible. This is because this is no laughing matter. The wife usually informs her husband that she is pregnant and a baby is going to follow. Since this is a serious matter usually the doctor is involved. The family doctor might speak to the husband and tell him the news. In very traditional families the wife may be too intimidated by the husband and might not have the courage to tell him. In this case a senior family member might step in and inform the husband.
Surprise for would be Daddy
In families where the husband and wife share a more liberal relationship the wife might find a creative way of telling her husband. One wife wrote on the bathroom mirror this message ‘we are going to have a baby.’ When the husband went to the bathroom in the morning he saw the new and was overjoyed. What better way to start your day than knowing you are going to be a father? The couple did not wipe the mirror for the next 2 months. One wife put the cutest teddy bear she could find on her husband’s favorite chair. When he came from office he saw the teddy bear with the message ‘Hi Daddy’. Needless to say he was overwhelmed. Another way is that the wife can take her husband out for dinner to a restaurant. In the middle of the meal she can tell her husband the good news. The local band can play a song dedicated to the father and the whole crowd in the restaurant can join in. One wife designed a little treasure hunt for her husband. He had to keep finding clues and ultimately at the end of the game the final clue informed him that he was about to be a father. Another creative way a wife found was to buy many baby products and decorate her husband’s desk with it. When he came back he figured it out immediately. There are many other ways to break this news. A momentous event like this deserves to be made memorable.